Supporting a Friend During Their Grief

Many of us have watched a good friend go through the grieving process after losing a loved one and have been frustrated by not being able to do more to comfort them. Experts explain this is a common feeling and provide some suggestions to help.

One of the first things to remember is everyone experiences grief in their own way. Heather L. McGinty, assistant professor in the department of psychiatry and behavioral health at the Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center in Columbus, explains grief triggers a range of emotions, sensations and behaviors and can be complex. 

A person’s emotions may swing from tearfulness to anger or denial, and as a friend, it can be hard to know what to say. Loneliness, betrayal, fear and acceptance are some of the other emotions grief brings up. Some people even experience physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches. 

If you want to help, grief counselors say to first make sure the person wants it; and recommend asking if they want the type of support you hope to offer, such as spending time with them. Some people are very private and prefer to grieve in their own way. The most important thing is to be supportive of their wishes and be prepared to listen rather than hand out advice. Also, be specific like letting them know you want to take them to lunch when they are ready, or bring over a meal, run errands or do some yardwork. 

Experts say avoid telling the person you know how they feel. Again, everyone experiences grief differently. Even if you don’t understand the way the person is acting out their grief, be supportive not judgmental. Lastly, don’t say things like “everything happens for a reason” or “they are in a better place.” If you think they would benefit from professional support, be sure to encourage it.  

If you are considering an assisted living facility in the Denver area, we invite you to schedule a tour of MorningStar at Jordan. Our beautiful home offers stylish assisted living suites in a range of floor plans and configurations.  Residents enjoy carefree retirement years as we handle the maintenance and provide onsite amenities, all-day dining, and built-in companionship. Visit our website for more information about MorningStar memory care and our community in Centennial.

MorningStar takes tremendous pride in the reputation we have earned for excellence and authenticity since our inception in 2003.  We believe the human capacity to grow, to learn and to contribute is ageless; and we act upon that truth daily, as we care for, inspire, and love the residents under our roof.  Contact us to learn more about one of the finest senior living communities in Centennial, CO.

Source: health.usnews.com/wellness/articles/ways-to-help-a-loved-one-grieve?

Older Adults Are at Greater Risk of Dehydration

Dehydration occurs when your body loses more fluid than it takes in. It can happen when we experience an excessive loss of fluids from things like sweating, vomiting and/or diarrhea; or simply not drinking enough. Dehydration can sneak up on people and is a common problem especially in the heat of summer. 

Older adults are even more at risk of dehydration as their thirst sensation decreases with age. This means seniors may not feel thirsty when they really need fluids. Other reasons can include underlying chronic illnesses of the heart, lung or kidneys as well as certain medications such as diuretics.

Maintaining fluids in our bodies is essential to good health. Dr. Marc Taub, an emergency physician and medical director of emergency services at MemorialCare Saddleback Medical Center in Laguna Hills, California, states, “Water helps move nutrients and oxygen throughout our system, ensuring cells get the elements they need to function.” 

Therefore it is important to recognize the early signs of dehydration and to address it.  The US News & World Report states these include: 

  • Feeling thirsty

  • Dry mouth

  • Lightheaded

  • Fatigue

  • Darker-colored urine

  • Odorous urine 

Mild cases of dehydration are easy to fix. Just drink a couple of glasses of water or try an electrolyte-enriched beverage like a sports drink or coconut water. If you are outside, get out of the sun and seek a cool location. 

Doctors say since older adults are more at risk, they should take extra precautions to make sure they don’t get into a difficult situation, particularly those with chronic medical conditions or on multiple medications. This would include staying indoors on hot days and drinking plenty of fluids throughout the day. If you feel you are drinking enough fluids but still feel thirsty or experiencing symptoms associated with dehydration, let your healthcare provider know. 

For trusted memory care in Albuquerque, we encourage you to learn more about MorningStar at North Ridge. Every aspect of our community is geared toward residents’ care from meaningful activities, trained caregivers, food service, security and more. We recognize the challenges families face when finding care for a loved one with memory impairment and want you to know we are here to help.

MorningStar at North Ridge, dementia care brings a unique vision to senior living with our mission statement “to honor, to value, to invest.” With a foundation built on honoring God, valuing seniors and investing in a staff with a felt calling to serve, we offer loving, compassionate care within a beautiful home-like setting.  Contact us for more information about the finest memory care facility in Albuquerque, NM.

Source: health.usnews.com/wellness/articles/dehydration-warning-signs

MorningStar Senior Living at RidgeGate Offers Built-in Companionship

People are often surprised to learn how beneficial an active social life can be to older adults.  However, it is not always easy to maintain as aging can leave many seniors feeling socially isolated and/or lonely. Hearing, vision or memory loss; chronic diseases and mobility issues can make it difficult for seniors to get out and about. Many lose social connections with the loss of a spouse, family members or friends.

The National Institute on Aging states, “Being alone may leave older adults more vulnerable to loneliness and social isolation, which can affect their health and well-being. Studies show that loneliness and social isolation are associated with higher risks for health problems such as heart disease, depression, and cognitive decline.” Other associated problems include obesity, high blood pressure and weakened immune function. 

One important benefit of retirement communities is the ease in which they offer built-in companionship. At MorningStar at RidgeGate, we consider it our privilege to provide amenities and activities that engage and enhance quality of life for residents. Our fitness center, swimming pool, strolling paths and exercise classes tailored to older adults allow you to stay as active as you like. Other amenities add to the vibrant environment and offer convenience such as beautiful gathering spaces, bistro bars, community stores, theaters, chapels, salon and life enrichment rooms.  

A look at our monthly calendar gives you an idea how many opportunities there are to stay engaged and have fun.  Games, crafts, live entertainment, movie nights and special interest activities ensure there is something for everyone.  In addition, forming new friendships is generally not a problem as you are amongst a group of like-minded adults.  

Along with independent living and assisted living, we provide memory care in our Reflections Neighborhood for those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia-related diseases. In addition, we offer respite care, (short recuperative stays) and trial stays from one week up to a full month to see if we are a good fit.  Please contact us or visit our website for more information. 

MorningStar’s foundation is based on the mission to honor God, value seniors and invest in our staff to create a unique senior living experience.  Set in a warm, loving atmosphere with beautiful surroundings and resort-style amenities, we provide the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in Lone Tree, Colorado.  Contact us or visit our website for more information.

What is Dementia?

Many of us, especially seniors, have heard or known someone with Alzheimer’s disease and have an idea of the devastation it causes. While there are other types of diseases categorized as dementia, Alzheimer’s is by far the most common form of dementia accounting for 60 to 80 percent of cases. You should know dementia is not actually a specific disease but refers to a decline in a person’s mental ability to such a degree it interferes with their daily life.    

It is also important to understand dementia is not a normal condition of aging but rather caused by damage to brain cells that affect a person’s memory, reasoning and other cognitive skills including an ability to communicate. There are several types of clinical dementia including: Alzheimer’s disease; vascular dementia; dementia with Lewy Body; and frontotemporal dementia. Mixed dementia is the term used when a person has both Alzheimer’s and another form of dementia, which is causing their mental decline.

The Alzheimer’s Association says the “most common early symptom of Alzheimer’s is trouble remembering new information because the disease typically impacts the part of the brain associated with learning first.” As the disease progresses, the person is robbed of many other abilities such as speaking, swallowing and walking.

To help get the proper diagnosis and rule out other causes that may be treatable such as side effects from a medication, it is important to see your doctor. If warranted, they may have you see a specialist that can do further testing.      

At MorningStar at Jordan, we provide memory care in our Reflections Neighborhood for those with Alzheimer’s disease and other dementia-related conditions. We are a team of compassionate professionals who feel honored to give our special residents the best quality of life possible. We also consider supporting family members as part of our job and recognize that a diagnosis of dementia is difficult for all involved. Contact us or visit our website to inquire about availability, pricing and to schedule a tour about assisted living communities

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Contact us to learn more about the finest assisted living and memory care in Centennial, Colorado.

Source: alz.org/alzheimers-dementia/difference-between-dementia-and-alzheimer-s

Balance Begins to Decline Around Age Fifty

Falls among senior citizens are all too common, and in many cases, threaten a person’s independence and way of life. Injuries from falls include to the head, hip fractures, and in extreme cases lead to death; and poor balance is one of the reasons people fall.

Experts explain a person’s balance declines with age due to loss of sensory elements, the ability to integrate information and issue motor commands; and loss of musculoskeletal function as well as poor vision and inner ear problems. Certain medications and common medical conditions in older adults can also cause problems. Balance begins to decline in midlife, starting at about age 50. In one study, adults in their 30s and 40s could stand on one foot for a minute or more. By age 50, the time decreased to 45 seconds.

The National Institute on Aging (NIH) explains maintaining good balance as you age and learning about fall prevention can help you get around, stay independent, and carry out daily activities. Targeted exercises like walking, strength training and workouts designed to improve stability are some of the best ways to improve balance. Consult with your doctor as to whether a physical therapist or other professional could help design suitable exercises to improve your balance.

Also talk to your doctor about any dietary changes you should make if your balance problems are due to high or low blood pressure. Something as simple as eating less salt, maintaining a healthy weight and exercising may help with high blood pressure.

If you have low blood pressure and experience dizziness, do not stand up too quickly, drink plenty of fluids such as water and avoid alcohol. Your doctor may need to evaluate if it is safe to for you to drive. To reduce your risk of falling, avoid walking in the dark, wear low-heeled, rubber-soled shoes; and if you need a mobility aid such as a cane or walker, use it.

MorningStar Assisted Living at Jordan is designed to meet the needs of residents with 24/7 senior care, hospitality services, wellness programs, and activities. Our suites come in a variety of floors plans and feature a kitchenette, private temperature control and an emergency call system.  Amenities include a bistro, fitness center, salon, game room, theatre, all-season porches, fireside patio and more. If you are considering memory care in Centennial, Colorado, please contact us or visit our website for more information.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Contact us for more information about one of the finest assisted living communities in Centennial, CO.

Care Services at MorningStar of Boulder

MorningStar of Boulder is a 55+ community in the beautiful city of Boulder, Colorado, close to medical facilities, shopping, restaurants and other services. We provide residents compassionate assisted living and memory care with luxury amenities, wellness programs and activities, and a wide range of care services to ensure their utmost comfort and well-being.  

At MorningStar we define health and well-being holistically and as such, offer programming that supports the whole person – body, mind and spirit.  Reflective of the full authority of our licensing with the Department of Health, our resident care services are broad and help extend the stay of residents even as their health conditions change.  In fact, we will routinely look for creative solutions (within our licensing mandate) that yield a higher quality of care for residents often at a lower cost to their families.  

To improve care services, we bring the MorningStar Electronic Health Record (EHR) system to our Boulder community.  It provides us with a central, mobile solution for assessments, care planning, incident tracking, wound care, behavior management and eMARs (electronic medication administration records).   The system benefits both our team and residents with quick access to accurate, legible, and complete demographic and medical information.  

Our services include: 24-hour care managers, medication management by certified med care managers, licensed nurses—on call 24/7, care planning reviews and scheduled health & wellness evaluations.  MorningStar also partners with EmpowerMe Wellness, a leader in providing therapy services to assisted living communities, to help residents maintain their independence as long as possible.  Residents have onsite access to wellness programs and personal training as well as physical, occupational, and speech therapy. 

MorningStar of Boulder also offers short-term respite care for those recovering from surgery or an illness, or when a personal caregiver needs a break from the responsibilities of caring for a loved one. Please contact us or visit our website for more information and to set up a tour to our memory care.

MorningStar takes tremendous pride in the reputation we have earned for excellence and authenticity since our inception in 2003.  We believe the human capacity to grow, to learn and to contribute is ageless; and we act upon that truth daily, as we care for, inspire, and love the residents under our roof. Contact us to learn more about one of the finest retirement living communities in Boulder.

Aging and Digestive Health

Like other parts of our bodies, the digestive system slows down as we age and can cause problems. However, like other parts of our bodies, there are things we can do to improve its health including watching our diet and exercising.

The muscles that move food through the digestive system become weaker with age causing food to move slower through the body resulting in problems like constipation, bloating and discomfort. Another issue is bacteria levels in the gut change with age. The body does not make as many good bacteria, which in turn increases bad bacteria. Along with the digestive system slowing, our closely related immune system also begins slowing. 

As an older person, you may develop sensitivity and intolerances to certain foods that can cause bloating and distention of the abdomen due to a buildup of excessive gas. Eating too fast, which increases your chances of swallowing too much air or consuming veggies like broccoli and cabbage, beans and other foods which digest slowly; may be the culprit. 

Other things interfering with the gut can be medications commonly taken by seniors. Drugs used to control blood pressure and pain meds can further slow down the gut and cause constipation. Inactivity and not drinking enough fluids throughout the day can also affect the efficiency of our digestive system. Nonetheless, keep in mind; it is important to bring serious ongoing problems to the attention of your healthcare provider.

At MorningStar at Jordan, we provide everything seniors need to enhance quality of life and make it easy to safely and comfortably age in place. Our vibrant community offers 55 suites for assisted living in a wide range of floor plans to address residents’ needs and preferences. In addition, residents are treated to hospitality and senior care services, resort-style amenities, wellness programs and activities. MorningStar’s dining is best-in-class and features flavor profiles to stimulate the senses and boost energy. Seasonal menus feature the freshest ingredients from high-quality producers, often locally sourced. 

For seniors with Alzheimer’s or other dementia-related diseases, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood offers memory care from the onset of the disease to the most advanced stages. Contact us to learn more about luxury senior living in Centennial, Colorado.

MorningStar’s foundation is based on the mission to honor God, value seniors and invest in our staff to create a unique senior living experience.  Set in a warm, loving atmosphere with beautiful surroundings and abundant amenities, we provide the finest assisted living communities and memory care in Centennial, CO.  Please contact our team to inquire about availability, pricing or to set up a tour.

It’s Common Misconception that Dementia is a Normal Part of Aging

The World Alzheimer Report 2024 published by Alzheimer’s Disease International states eighty percent of the public think dementia is a normal part of aging. More troubling is that 65 percent of health care professionals believe the same. While the Alzheimer’s Association estimates 1 out of 9 Americans age 65 and older suffer from Alzheimer’s, remember that leaves a greater number of us not getting the disease.  

Howard Fillit, M.D., clinical professor of geriatrics, medicine and neuroscience at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York City, and chief science officer of the Alzheimer’s Drug Discovery Foundation, explains, “Certain abilities —processing speed, for example — slow down [around] the age of 20 or so, when processing speed peaks; to age 70 or 80, when processing speed can be down as much as 50 to 70 percent.” On the flip side, seniors typically have superior vocabulary and decision-making skills. 

The National Institutes of Health funded a study to discover if individuals close to someone with dementia looked at it differently. They concluded that “people with a family member with dementia were less likely to believe that dementia is preventable and less confident about the effectiveness of taking preventive actions.” These unfavorable perceptions discouraged them from engaging in healthy behaviors linked to a decrease in a person’s risk for Alzheimer’s. Prior studies also found family members of a person with dementia were more reluctant to get early screening, which is too bad as today’s treatments are best started in the early stages of the disease. 

While it is true a direct relative of someone with Alzheimer’s is more likely to develop the disease than those without a first-degree relative, it is not a given. Family genetics are not the only cause of Alzheimer’s. Known risk factors for dementia include obesity, chronic diseases such as type 2 diabetes and hypertension, smoking, and excessive alcohol consumption. A report from the Lancet Commission estimated that up to 40% of dementia cases could be prevented by addressing such risk factors. The Alzheimer’s Association cautions any person considering genetic testing should receive genetic counseling before a test is ordered and once results are obtained. Discuss with your healthcare provider about what is right for you. 

Along with assisted living, MorningStar at Jordan offers compassionate, loving care to those with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases.  Every aspect of our memory care addresses the needs of our residents starting with the very design of our Reflections Neighborhood to a wide range of wellness programs, activities and healthy, delicious meals.  We also consider caring and supporting family members as part of our job as we understand that dementia can be a challenging journey.  Please contact us or visit our website for more information on assisted living communities.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Contact us to learn more about the finest memory care in Centennial, CO.

Sources: aarp.org/health/conditions-treatments/info-2024/cognitive-decline-aging.htmlncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8088446/

Safeguard Your Medicare Number to Reduce the Risk of Fraud

The National Health Care Anti-Fraud Association estimates last year’s annual Medicare insurance fraud was around $100 billion, and most likely much higher. While one in five beneficiaries say they have encountered potential Medicare fraud, there are precautions you can take to reduce or eliminate fraudulent claims starting with protecting your Medicare and Social Security cards and numbers like you do your credit cards. 

Experts say don’t respond to a call, text or email asking you to provide your Medicare Number. They caution you to only show your Medicare card or give out your number to your doctor or people you know who should have it. To determine if you are a victim of fraud, examine your Medicare Summary Notices (MSNs) or claims statements carefully for any discrepancies or additions of services or charges you did not receive. Another common scam is to try to get Medicare beneficiaries to sign up for drug plans that are not approved by Medicare. 

If your Medicare card is stolen or you suspect fraud, report it as soon as possible to 1-800-MEDICARE (1-800-633-4227). It is important to know Medicare will never call to sell you anything or visit you at home. They will only call or contact you in limited situations to ask for personal information. One such person may be the agent who helped you sign up for a particular Medicare program or drug plan. You also may be contacted by Medicare if you left your number to report fraud or inconsistencies with your MSNs.  

If you are considering assisted living in the Boulder, Colorado area, MorningStar of Boulder may be your answer.  We offer a true home where seniors can live their best life and feel respected, engaged and secure. This is made possible through a dedicated team who are committed to providing residents with the highest quality of life possible. Please contact us or visit our website for more information on memory care.

MorningStar has considered it a privilege and responsibility to “cast a new light” on senior living, inspired and empowered by our unique mission: to honor, to value, to invest. Our passionate commitment to serving seniors has proudly earned us a reputation for satisfaction that is second to none. Contact us to learn more about one of the finest retirement communities in Boulder, Colorado.

Activities for Those Living with Alzheimer’s Disease

An article in the online publication, Medical News Today, suggests activities that can provide a person with Alzheimer’s disease a sense of normality and help enrich their life. A study reported meaningful activities are important for those with dementia as they can improve both psychological and physical health.

One suggestion of an indoor activity is to sit with the person and look through photo albums of family together. This is an effective way to engage the person and is typically enjoyable. Another relaxing activity can be listening to the person’s favorite music; or if they are more hands-on, do an arts and crafts project. Playing an instrument has much the same calming effect. 

Researchers say studies show knitting and crocheting to be calming activities for those with Alzheimer’s. Not only does it help reduce anxiety and depression, but the person gets a sense of accomplishment. Moreover, done within a group setting, it can lessen feelings of loneliness and isolation. Routine things like daily chores can also be comforting and help the person feel like they are a contributing member of the family/group.     

Experts say outdoor activities are important to the person’s overall health and well-being. One area of research for those having dementia includes therapeutic gardening. Data shows gardening can improve a person’s emotional and cognitive state, increase engagement and reduce anxiety. 

Other healthy outdoor activities include walking in the park (getting back to nature is good for all of us) and feeding the birds. If the person uses a mobility aid such as a walker or cane, be sure to have them use it. The same goes for wearing good-fitting walking shoes. 

The Alzheimer’s Association suggests keeping to a routine each day is helpful; as well as offering other promising ideas worth considering. In addition, they say to remember everyone is different, and if an activity does not seem to be to their liking, try something else. Most importantly activities should be those the person enjoys. 

At MorningStar of Boulder, our Reflections Neighborhood offers compassionate, experienced memory care to those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia-related diseases. Our home is a safe, peaceful place where residents’ independence is encouraged with inviting common areas and clear wayfinding.  In addition, purposeful activities keep residents engaged including physical exercise, music, dance and art designed to stimulate or calm as the situation requires.  Please contact us or visit our website for more information about MorningStar’s assisted living in Boulder, CO.


MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us to learn more about the finest assisted living Boulder, CO offers.